Do you own your stuff, or does it own you?    In our culture, January can be a time of year that we struggle with a collective post-holiday hangover.  It is a good time to evaluate or re-evaluate our relationship with our possessions.   Did you know that the average American household contains an average of 300,000 items ?  While there might be some gray area around what constitutes 1 item, it is clear that Americans have a disordered relationship with their things. Things ar